quite a few (like at least 3) of my friends have been struggling with feeling like they’re not “good” friends ⁉️⁉️ but like. my friends make me feel safe and cared about, because like.
who else sends me Arcane memes when it feels like there’s no more Arcane memes to see?
who else fuckin shows up at my dorm in the middle of the night to walk 10K steps when i’m sad and need company?
who else texts me every few days to check in and send pictures of flowers and fireworks and animals they see bc they know i have helicopter parents and can’t really leave my house during the summer?
who else laid with me on the floor of our friend’s dorm room for two hours while our friend was feeling burnt out while holding a Tangled watch party because i’d never seen it before and it was one of her comfort movies?
who else gifted me one of my favorite video games because i have a rabid crush on the protagonist???
who else went with me without question to a cat cafe for the sole reason of testing if i was still allergic to cats?
who texts me foaming at the mouth when she hears about a theatre troupe we really like touring in America and debates the best numbers in a musical with me for two hours, by the end of which we still don’t agree?
like bitch!!! you’re good friends because you make me feel heard, thought of, and happy!! you think about me like once a week or whenever you see something that reminds you of me and you stick around even when im sad or snappy and THAT is being a good friend!!!!
you should tell them exactly this!!!
i did exactly 🙂↕️✨